The fourth love language is acts of service. Acts of service are when you do something for someone else. It might be something you like to do, like bake cookies. Or it could be something you don't necessarily like to do, such as the dishes or scrubbing the floors. This love language, like all of them, are not about what YOU want to do, but what the other person wants. It could be that you think vacuuming is an awesome thing to do to show your love. When in reality, your spouse would rather you fold the mountain of laundry to show them you love them.
If your spouse keeps asking you to do things, like cleaning or other things around the house, or washing the car, his or her love language is probably acts of service. Listen to what they ask you to do and DO those things, even if they are not the things you think should show love. If acts of service are the love of language of someone you love, do what they are asking to fill up his or her love tank. Thanks for reading. :-)
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